Native Americans and Alcohol

Alcohol abuse among Native Americans in the U.S has been a problem for a long time. Michael Dorris, author of The Broken Cord, which detailed his adopted Native American son’s fetal alcohol syndrome, called attention to it when his book was published in 1989.American Indians.jpg

If you don’t live near an area with a high Native American population, you may tend to think of this group’s alcohol problems only when you hear or read about this tragedy. A recent article reminds us that the problem is not going away.

Alcohol has been banned on the Pine Ridge Indian Reservation in South Dakota since 1970. I presume that was the result of an Oglala tribal decree, since “fetal alcohol syndrome, fatal drunken driving accidents, and beer-fueled murders have cast a pall over Pine Ridge for decades,” according to the writer. So some Pine Ridgers go to Whiteclay, a nearby town, for their poison, and as a result, the tribe has filed a lawsuit against brewers and the stores selling liquor just yards from the reservation, in Nebraska. Whiteclay residents have several responses to this finger-pointing, including the thought that the problem will just move and at least it’s contained in one area now.

The Oglala reservation’s tribal head said the majority of criminal court cases and illnesses on the reservation were the result of alcohol bought across the state line (in other words, in Whiteclay). There were 20,000 alcohol-related arrests in 2011 alone on the reservation. Four of five families have a member with a drinking problem, and there are high rates of teen suicide.

Pine Ridge is the only dry reservation left in SD, but about 1/3 of the other 310 reservations already ban alcohol. People who want to legalize alcohol on all reservations say that doing so would allow tribes to control it better and have a revenue source for providing treatment programs. The CDC, for its part, says “Excessive alcohol consumption is the leading cause of preventable death among American Indians, and they are affected at about twice the rate of the national average.”

Here’s a link to a Sioux City Journal article about the controversy. Also, an issue of Alcohol Health and Research World on the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism site contains an interesting article on American Indians and Alcohol.

 

Naloxone and Overdose Rescue Kits and Hangover Helpers

When I first saw the headline, “Overdose Rescue Kits”, I thought it was a joke, a takeoff on articles about overdose rescue kit.jpghangover remedies. But it wasn’t a joke. (FYI, since that day, the “New York Times” has changed the headline to “Kits Using Naloxone Revive Addicts After Opiate Overdose”. They make those changes occasionally.) I knew about oral activated charcoal used for drug overdoses, but this was different.

Last October I posted about states passing legislation to help those who overdose by removing the fear of being arrested if someone calls 911 to get the person help. This article is about helping people in other countries who overdose on drugs like heroin and Oxycontin.

In Europe, someone dies from a drug overdose every hour, the article says. (I wonder what the figure is in this country.) With naloxone (or Narcan, the brand name), which blocks opiate receptors, the person may be revived. I don’t know if it’s possible in every case, but it’s been “shown to work” and “has been used for decades by surgeons and paramedics.” Naloxone is “a secondary chemical in the drug Suboxone”, according to Wikipedia.

The article mentioned there’s a question about how legal it is to distribute these kits the way other countries do it, but there are groups in Central Asia and in Europe hard at work. In China, if you call a hotline, someone on a motorcycle will deliver the kit to you. In Afghanistan, however, the person who gave you a heroin injection may also provide the Naloxone shot. L

Now the cost. Roughly between  25 cents and $2.00 in other countries, in contrast to about $6 or $9 in the U.S, depending on what article you read.

Be sure and check out the photo of the kit in the article. It looks very professional, like a first aid kit you might buy for your house. A nasal spray is available as well. I wonder why I never heard of these kits before.

In a 2009 article in Time magazine, addiction writer Maia SzalavitzMaia Szalavitz.bmp wrote about programs in Chicago and North Carolina in this country.  I also found mention of the kits by a Canadian blogger. Here’s an article from the Harm Reduction Journal on a government site about a study of a program in New York City. The conclusions seemed pretty positive. Finally, NPR has had a story on the kits, too.

As the New York Times writer mentions, if someone is revived with this kit, it may send him or her back to rehab. On the other hand, Szalavitz notes a problem with these programs: could drug users also think that if this is something that can resuscitate them they can continue using drugs with impunity? Which, as we know, is playing Russian roulette with your life.

About hangover remedies…there’s news on that front as well. Just before New Year’s, several new products hit the news. Enterprising entrepreneurs have been busy.

One product, a patch, goes on an area like a forearm 45 minutes before drinking and should be worn for eight hours after the last drink. It contains B and other vitamins, Acai berry, and folic and pantothenic acid. But even the doctor that helped produce the patch said that nothing will help those who drink a lot, so doesn’t this appear senseless?

Another supposed remedy is a pill that is a blend of aspirin, an antacid, and caffeine, and yet another is a mix of vitamin B and C, magnesium and cysteine. It seems to me there are so many more productive things to be doing with one’s time, and so many better things to invent for mankind.

Update from Joan Borsten:

Fifteen minutes after we published Pat's article, the phone rang.  A woman had already read it and wanted to know where to get a Naloxone kit.  She said she wanted to have one on hand in case her brother, a heroin addict, overdosed.   While researching this article, Pat had looked without luck for a manufacturer of these kits.  She tried again and discovered that kits require a prescription and the local pharmacy may or may not have a kit on hand, but there are apparently 200 naloxone distribution programs around the country.  There is a large program in New York directed by Sharon Stancliff with the Harm Reduction Coalition.  To find one in your area, type http://hopeandrecovery.org/overdose into your search engine and enter a zip code into the program locator.

 

Drunk Shopping

Joan mentioned recently that I post about alcohol frequently. It’s true, I do. You have to admit—it’s woman ordering from a catalogue 1.jpgeverywhere. It’s in newspaper ads, it’s paired with entrees on restaurant menus…And it’s easy to see why. It’s the “socially acceptable” drug. A friend of mine recently said that kids smoking pot today are as ubiquitous as people drinking wine. Sad analogy, but it shows once again, alcohol is everywhere and often considered socially acceptable.

One example of how rampant alcohol is in our culture is the articles about the increase in people who shop online after drinking. You’ve probably heard of “drunk dialing” (making phone calls you otherwise wouldn’t make if you were sober); now we have “drunk shopping,” or more elegantly  “shopping under the influence,” according to an article in The New York Times.

It was especially popular to drink and shop online over the holidays, according to the writer. Boutiques have long been enticing shoppers with wine and cheese, and over the holidays, at least one brick-and-mortar retailer, A.Line Boutique in Denver, used alcohol and food platters in the hope customers would shop more after imbibing.

As a society, we use alcohol in many ways, such as to mark important occasions, in the Catholic ritual of communion, and when socializing with friends and family. In moderation it’s harmless and even has protective effects on the heart. (Doesn’t it seem like researchers are always finding more benefits?)

Most people can drink socially with no problem. But for others, those who abuse alcohol or become addicted to it, alcohol has serious consequences. (That’s over 14 million people in the U.S.) Socially, it’s a disaster for the drinker and those around him or her. (You’ve probably heard that 1 in 4 people are affected by a loved one’s drinking.) And physically, alcohol can kill.

As I’ve written before, in The Physical Toll of Alcoholism, it affects countless organs in the body, can lead to cancer, and impacts your brain. It’s also the cause of car accidents and accidents in the home. Less deadly but still sad are how it affects one’s judgment. Drunk shopping indeed.

Drinking and the Holidays

When I saw the headline, I had a feeling I knew what the article would say. The Medpage Todayholiday ornaments.jpg article was titled: “Relatives, Alcohol, Knives, and Other ED [Emergency Department] Thanksgiving Tales.” I was right; it warned readers about holiday merriment when drinking is involved. "People need to minimize their alcohol consumption. But if they don't, stay away from relatives and carving knives," if offered.

Articles like this start appearing around Thanksgiving each year. At a minimum, it certainly doesn’t hurt to remind people of the dangers of drinking and driving at a time when people may imbibe more (especially people with a problem). Besides parties with family and friends, there are those holiday office parties, too.

 Also, college students returning home for the break and congregating in bars can be a real concern. Here’s an article (“Home for the Holiday, Time to Party”) on this yearly ritual from the Wall Street Journal. The paper referred to these events as “the alcohol-fueled get-together[s] of the old high-school crowd.” Of course you think about the drive home and hope the young drivers don’t get behind the wheel.

On the other end of the scale, inebriated family members have caused heartaches, arguments, and worse during holiday get-togethers. Every family in this situation knows what I’m talking about, and families are at different places as to how they handle a family member who drinks. Some try to overlook the drinking and enjoy the holiday despite it. A number of people roll their eyes about their “Uncle Harry” whose drinking is quite obvious during the holiday celebration. Some families insist the the family member who drinks refrain from drinking, or some family members stay away if that family member is allowed to attend. Each family – and family member – has to handle it their own way.

 Then there are the questions regarding family members in recovery. Do you drink around them? Do you only have non-alcoholic drinks? Do you ask them their preferences? It’s not always easy to know what to do.

 

 

 

Substance Abuse on College Campuses

girl and martini.jpgThere are a lot of good things happening on college campuses, but there are always those less than desirable events going on as well, often involving drinking to excess and all that accompanies that during the college years.  Girls Gone Wild, the risqué TV show, was due to arrive at a bar near Rutgers University in my state recently. In fact, two Rutgers University students arranged it.

Not surprisingly, some students and administrators were upset because allowing the TV program to do a video shoot at the bar “detracts from the university’s effort to promote responsible drinking and prevent sexual assault.” The Alcohol and Beverage Control stepped in and said that nudity and liquor cannot mix in a bar and the bar stands to have its liquor license revoked if the event took place. The head of the Student Assembly spoke out against the idea, too, which was nice to see.

I found it interesting that at the same time, Linn State Technical College in Missouri  was in the news for its mandatory drug testing policy as condition of enrollment. Talk about controversy. The ACLU has filed a lawsuit to fight the policy, which

“…requires all first-year degree or certificate-seeking students, as well as those students returning to the college after a leave of a semester or more, to pay a $50 nonrefundable fee and submit to testing by the collection and analysis of their urine. Students began to be pulled out of their classes the day after the policy was adopted so they could be tested, and a refusal to submit to the test will result in students being dismissed from the college.

Students whose tests come back positive will have 45 days to take a second test with a negative result in order to avoid being dismissed from the college.”

Can you imagine if every college had this policy and the courts approved? It might just mean that substance abusing students would have to take a hiatus if they wanted a degree and would return to drug abuse on graduating. But who knows? They’d be studying with a clear mind, and maybe some of them would never go back to drugs.

 

Wet Houses, Where Alcoholics Aren't Urged to Get Treatment

I suppose you can characterize attitudes toward certain drugs as either liberal or conservative. But there’s a movement regarding drinking that is so liberal as to redefine the word.alcoholic = silouette and bottle.jpg

Proponents of this theory hold that it’s OK to allow alcoholics to drink rather than try to move them to treatment and save their lives. In some places across the country, alcoholics are allowed to live in houses where no treatment is provided and people are allowed to drink themselves to death. A piece on Minnesota Public Radio ("MPR") dubbed the St. Anthony Residence in St. Paul, where 60 men were living in December 2010, a "hospice".  At the time that article appeared on the MPR website, Minnesota had four “wet houses” in the state.

The arguments for and against wet houses are fairly obvious. Those in favor say treatment doesn’t work for some people and the more humane act is to give these people a home and allow them to live out their days as comfortably as possible. Some alcoholics are simply hopeless, advocates say. Why make them continue the cycle of DUIs, incarcerations, and relying on emergency rooms for emergency care? (They’re provided with medical care if they get sick in these Minnesota homes.) They also cost the government (and taxpayers) a ton of money living this way.

Critics, however, including William Moyers, author of "Broken: My Story of Addiction and Redemption," say this thinking makes no sense. Just as you don’t give up on people with cancer, you just don’t give up on people with an addiction.

A more recent article about wet houses appeared in The New York Times Magazine in April. In this article, an employee at one of the houses said people who live there actually moderate their drinking, and the houses save taxpayers money since they’re funded by non-profits and others.

These houses have to be one of the most controversial topics ever.

Drinking Diaries: Women Writing about Alcoholism

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: It never fails to amaze me how people are driven to write about substance abuse or addiction—both those who have battled it, and those who have been affected by it. (One example is the NYT Proof blog, which is supposed to be resurrected at some point.)

I ran into another example of writing about addiction recently after finally seeing the movie Julie & Julia. I wanted to know more about Julie Powell, the woman who blogged about following Julia Child’s recipes and got a book published (on which the movie is based) as a result. I found an interview she had done on a site called Drinking Diaries.  Thumbnail image for Drinking Diaires LeahandCaren6-251x300.jpg

Drinking Diaries, the founders tell us, is “a forum for women to share, vent, express, and discuss their drinking stories without judgment.” Writers Caren Osten Gerszberg and Leah Odze Epstein have both been affected by alcoholism in their family, so it’s natural that they got the idea for the blog. They solicit stories about drinking from women and have compiled essays into a book that will be published in September 2012:DRINKING DIARIES: Women Serve Their Stories Straight Up”.

I could spend a lot of time on this site--there’s lots of good stuff here, like an interview with Alexandra Styron, daughter of author William Styron, who wrote about his depression in his memoir, “Darkness Visible”. His daughter  has written a memoir about growing up with him, “Reading My Father.”  I also liked the Resources section, which lists books related to drinking. I’m including them here:

MEMOIRS:

At Home in the World, by Joyce Maynard

Drinking: A Love Story, by Caroline Knapp

Dreaming: Hard Luck and Good Times in America, by Carolyn See

Hungry Hill: A Memoir, by Carole O’Malley Gaunt

Mommy Doesn’t Drink Here Anymore: Getting Through the First Year of Sobriety, by Rachel Brownell

Red, White, and Drunk All Over: A Wine-Soaked Journey From Grape to Glass, by Natalie MacLean

Slow Motion, by Dani Shapiro

Smashed, by Koren Zailckas

NONFICTION:

Drinking, Smoking and Screwing: Great Writers on Good Times, edited by Sara Nickles, with Bob Shacochis

It Will Never Happen to Me, by Claudia Black

Love on the Rocks: Men, Women, and Alcohol in Post World War II America, by Lori Rotskoff

Understanding the High-Functioning Alcoholic: Professional Views and Personal Insights, by Sarah Allen Benton

NOVELS:

Rosie, by Anne Lamott

YOUNG ADULT NOVELS:

Love You, Hate You, Miss You, by Elizabeth Scott

A Room on Lorelei Street, by Mary Pearson

 

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Understanding the High-Functioning Alcoholic

I’ve run into several people whose alcoholic family member gets up each morning and goes to a job, so the sober person says their loved one doesn’t have a problem. For people who don’t understand substance abuse and addiction, the high-functioning alcoholic can be difficult for some people to wrap their brain around.Sarah Allen Benton.jpg

Understanding the High-Functioning Alcoholic: Professional Views and Personal Insights, by Sarah Allen Benton, explains that some of us are influenced by the stereotype of the jobless and homeless substance abuser who’s all tapped out. That’s what an alcoholic is to them. Benton calls people who represent this stereotype “low-bottom drunks.” and I take that to mean drinking takes over these peoples’ lives to the point where they lose everything and can barely function.

Roughly 18 million people suffer from alcohol abuse or dependence in this country, and about 9% of those fit the stereotype just mentioned, according to the book. However, 20% of people who abuse alcohol may be high-functioning, Benton tells us. They work, often in prestigious careers, and they can maintain a life outside work. They often hide their disease well. Plus, their success makes it even easier for them to deny they have a problem.

But this group exhibits the same warning signs as anyone with a drinking problem: They experience blackouts, they feel shame about their drinking, they obsess about it, and they can’t stop. There are several other signs as well. Plus, they’re on the road that leads to one place only: death.

Benton speculates that there’s not a lot of research on this segment of drinkers simply because they’re higher functioning. They don’t pose as severe a problem for society and government systems as their severely addicted counterparts. Her discussion of famous “HFAs”, as she calls them, reminds us that no one is immune. The list goes on and on: Buzz Aldrin, Elizabeth Taylor, celebrity host Pat O’Brien, Representative Patrick Kennedy, Grammy winner Keith Urban, Eric Clapton, and more recently, Charlie Sheehan, to name a few. There but for the Grace of God go you and I.high functioning alcoholic bookcover-200.jpg

The book is divided into two sections: Active Alcoholism and Recovery, which I found to be an interesting approach.  It stands to reason that the author discusses the controversial topic of cutting down, or drinking in moderation, since it’s an option most HFAs probably consider. She presents a ton of research, both pro and con, and you can guess, on reading her background, which side she’s on.

A high-functioning alcoholic herself, Benton is a mental health counselor in Boston entering her 7th year of sobriety. Her story of alcoholism and recovery, woven throughout the book in actual entries from a journal she kept, seem especially poignant, probably because as a professional she has great insight into her experiences. “The longer I have been in recovery, the more I change my perspective on my past,” she writes.

Here’s a blog post Benson wrote for Psychology Today: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-high-functioning-alcoholic/200903/high-functioning-alcoholics-are-everywhere-are-not-gettin

There’s a lot of information in this book, but if it’s the personal story that always gets you, Benton certainly has one.

An ER Doctor's Humanity

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Do you ever wonder what doctors think about their patients who drink or abuse other drugs? There’s an online publication called www.medpagetoday.com  that says it’s “PUTTING BREAKING MEDICAL NEWS INTO PRACTICE®.” I get the organization’s email newsletter. It also offers a couple of blogs written by the staff, many of whom are doctors.

Recently one of the blogs by a doctor who calls himself Shadowfax caught my eye. The title of his blog is “Movin’ Meat: The Accidental Blog of a Semi-Accidental ER Doc Living in the Pacific Northwest.” The name of the particular post I read was “Just Another Drunk.” 

He wrote about an older homeless alcoholic who ended up in his ER. We never learn the man’s name. Someone had found him passed out in a bush and had called an ambulance. The man, who had been in jail recently, was in the bush in the first place because he’d had too much to drink and couldn’t find his way back to the bridge he lived under. Shadowfax laments the fact that there’s nothing the ER can do for this man, and marvels that he has lived to age 75.

The doctor asks the man if he has any family and waits as he hesitates for a minute and then says no. It’s the hesitation that grabs the doctor’s attention and makes him try to imagine this man’s life and the family he may have had at one time. Did each of his loved ones drop off along the way? Did he once have friends?  Then the doctor makes it personal, talking about his own family which includes uncles who were lost to alcoholism and what it did to their families. The doctor is yet another person touched by alcoholism, illustrating once again the reach that this disease has.

Shadowfax was sympathetic to this man’s plight and didn’t judge. But I’ve read that there are some doctors who still judge alcoholics, who think that drinking is a moral failure instead of a brain disease. Hard to believe when they’re in the medical field. But that was before the HBO Addiction series appeared on TV, so let’s hope the doctors who still think that way saw the program and it changed their attitude.

I wonder how many other people have a family member who was homeless at one time or maybe still is. I especially like his last line: “Of all the sad things we see in the ER -- and there are plenty -- this seems to me to be one of the saddest and least appreciated, and by far among the most common.”

 

The Physical Toll of Alcoholism

We hear over and over again that alcoholism wreaks havoc on the human body, but I’ll never forget the first time I learned how pervasive the damage can be.  Hearing about it is one thing, however, but seeing it in print really brought it home to me. It’s not pretty, and that’s a good place to start this cautionary post.Man and bottle.jpg

 

People who drink to excess suffer from poor nutrition because they can’t absorb vitamins properly, so aside from the physical complications, their appearance suffers. Overall poor health from alcoholism can make someone’s skin appear pasty and their hair look dull. If you’ve seen broken capillaries on someone’s face, you’ll probably agree they’re unsightly, too.

 

But that’s not the half of it. Let’s start at the top. Brain degeneration is a big problem, along with the possibility of severe memory loss and Wernicke-Korsakoff (“wet brain”) syndrome. Symptoms of the latter disorder include unsteady walking, hallucinating, confabulation (making up stories), and vision changes.

 

Experts say alcoholism can also lead to cancer of the colon, liver, larynx, and esophagus. Not only that, liver disease (alcoholic hepatitis), followed by cirrhosis of the liver, and esophageal bleeding are not uncommon, nor is pancreatitis.

 

The list goes on. Alcoholics can experience depression, insomnia, high blood pressure, and nerve and heart muscle damage. In women, alcoholism can lead to the cessation of menstruation, and in men, to an inability to get an erection.

 

On one hand, many of these are clinical-sounding unemotional medical terms that read like a Scared Straight script, the talk prison inmates give to young people to try and keep them on the straight and narrow. On the other hand, if you or a loved one has experienced some of these complications, you know how serious they can be, and how heart-breaking.

 

 

 

 

Proof: The New York Times Addiction Blog

Excessive drinking is portrayed in movies (Lost Weekend, Barfly and 28 Days are three), recorded in books (A Drinking Life: A Memoir by Pete Hamill), and, of course, detailed in blogs. While many blogs provide the latest research on addiction or other pertinent information, one thought-provoking, literary blog is The New York Times’ blog called Proof. It’s described on the site as follows:

For the past 10,000 years or so, wherever humans have gathered, there has been alcohol. Some never touch the stuff. But most do. It is used to celebrate, commiserate, mourn, remember and, often, to forget. It is different things to different people: libation, anesthetic, emotional crutch, social lubricant, addictive substance, sacred potion, killer or commodity. In “Proof,” contributors consider the charms, powers and dangers of drink, and the role it plays in their lives.

The contributors are superb writers, and many are recovering alcoholics. I happened upon “Proof” in 2008 and fell in love with the writing immediately, so I was crestfallen when it went on hiatus last year. It promises to return, however. (If you enter http://proof.blogs.nytimes.com/2009, you’ll see a drop-down menu that allows you to access all six months of the blog.) There’s also a timeline of alcohol in modern history for the curious, and if you click on Read More underneath the editors’ farewell message, you’ll find comments from readers that the editors chose to publish.

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I’ve never had a drinking problem, so I can’t write about what alcoholism is like. But many of these writers can, and they’re eloquent and….human. It’s as if they’re driven to record the seduction they experienced, the monster they have dealt with, or their journey back.  I’m reminded of a quote from F. Scott Fitzgerald: “You don't write because you want to say something; you write because you've got something to say.” There’s something about alcohol that makes people have something to say.

Here’s writer Tim Kreider musing on youth and alcohol:  

“My years of heavy drinking were roughly coterminous with my youth, and looking back now, it’s hard to figure out which one of them I really miss. The association between the two is not just Pavlovian. Drunkenness and youth share in a reckless irresponsibility and the illusion of timelessness. The young and the drunk are both reprieved from that oppressive, nagging sense of obligation that ruins so much of our lives, the worry that we really ought to be doing something productive instead. It’s the illicit savor of time stolen, time knowingly and joyfully squandered.” 

And from writer Sacha Scoblic:

“Lots of addicts in recovery worry that they might relapse if they hang out with old friends, if they lose their job, or if a loved one dies. I worry I might relapse if an exciting opportunity to get wasted with a celebrity comes along.”

Perhaps those excerpts whet your appetite for reading the Proof blog.

 

Ready for Rehab

Whether or not an addict enters recovery as a result of an intervention, a court mandate, or a personal choice, the important thing is that they get there, right? Actress Elizabeth M., one of the success stories on this website, is interesting for many reasons, but one is that she knew it was time. Granted, her talent agent had recently fired her, but her story is uplifting because of how she so willingly gave herself over to the program from the start. She drank on the ride there, but there was no denial. She had told herself, ‘This is it. I have to do it.”Thumbnail image for chardonnay glass.jpg

 

You might argue that she had hit bottom when she found herself without a career, and because her marriage was on shaky ground because of her drinking. She’s quick to point out that she was afraid of what her drinking was doing to her son, too. He was 9 when she entered Malibu Beach Recovery Center.

 

But the self-realization she owns up to is inspiring. It’s common to find people in deep denial after years of hurting themselves and others. Recently I interviewed a man who said that even weeks into his stay at a Pennsylvania program he was still lying to everyone—and himself. It’s the nature of the disease.  Elizabeth is also looking back from the perspective of a year’s sobriety, but if she’s to be believed (and there’s no reason not to) she desperately wanted her life back. Her mother had been an alcoholic and started drinking when Elizabeth was 9, the age her son was when she decided to get sober. The irony is striking. Or, as Elizabeth says about the coincidence, “the planets were aligned.”

 

When I asked Elizabeth to describe a little of what rehab was like, she said she doesn’t remember the first two days because she was detoxing. She remembers how frail she was when she started, and that the food was “the best she had ever eaten 28 days in a row.” She also recalls that she was determined to succeed, because she didn’t want to have to return.

 

Like most people I’ve talked to who are in recovery, Elizabeth has gained a truckload of wisdom about herself and about life since achieving sobriety at 46. She attends daily self-help meetings, and she still talks to her sponsor. Perhaps most important, she’s confident she’ll be around to see her son graduate from high school now, which a doctor had told her, before rehab, might not happen.

 

An addiction specialist I interviewed once told me that the hardest people to treat are those who are down and out financially and those who are successful. The first group figures they have nothing more to lose if they don’t stop drinking, and the second group figures they have enough financial resources that they can continue drinking for quite some time with few consequences.

 

Both groups are mistaken.  Just ask Elizabeth.