INTERVENTION THE SEQUEL: ANGELINA GETS MARRIED

A little more than three years have passed since Candy Finnigan intervened on Angelina before millions of viewers, in one of the most dramatic episodes the Emmy winning A&E series has ever aired, and brought her to Malibu Beach Recovery Center. Thumbnail image for Angelina bride to be.jpg 

Earlier this week the formerly down-and-out New Jersey girl married a West Los Angeles doctor and headed for a big wedding bash at a Mexican resort.   What is news worthy is not the marriage, although that in itself is pretty exciting, but Angelina’s remarkable transformation into a vibrant young woman who has her life and priorities in order.  

Those who have watched the Angelina episode on Intervention might be wondering about her mom Peggy, who Candy sent to treatment the same day.   Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for angelina and peggy.jpgPeggy, now more than 3 years sober, is back in New Jersey. She came to California for the festivities, which began with an elegant bridal shower thrown by Angelina’s sponsor. 

Among the shower guests was Rachel, the second New Jersey girl Candy brought to Malibu Beach Recovery Center. Rachel, who was living on the streets of Manhattan at the time of the intervention, is looking very chic and healthy these days. Her art and writing abilities continue to impress. Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Rachel at Angelina's shower.jpg

Before Angelina flew off to Mexico, there was a reunion with Candy at the West Los Angeles restaurant where Angelina worked during her first years of sobriety. Candy had not seen either Angelina or Peggy since the intervention, and she was definitely pleased.  The two women talked at length about their experiences in treatment and in the 12 Step Program; Angelina showed off her ring and wedding photos.  Candy explained the difference between being "in recovery" and "recovered."  

I -- the only  "normie" at the table  -- listened and thought about the power addiction has to destroy lives that should be rich and meaningful. In Angelina's case a bright, personable young woman almost lost her way. Just before the Intervention Show chose Angelina from among the thousands of applicants, arrived to "film a documentary about addiction" and spirited her off to California Angelina had filed a "Do Not Resuscitate" order at a local New Jersey hospital.  Life was hopeless.  She wanted her next drug overdose to be her last.   Fortunately destiny had other plans.

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A&E's Intervention TV Show - Michelle from New Jersey

UPDATE:  Here is a photo of Michelle's joyful reunion in California with her daughters.Thumbnail image for MichelleAndGirlsREUNITE.JPG

 

 

On August 22, 2011 the "Michelle” episode of Emmy-winning TV series Intervention premieres on A&E.  Michelle of Williamstown, NJ is a 30-year-old mother of two. Michelle July 2011.jpgInterventionist Candy Finnigan brought her to Malibu Beach Recovery Center on May 26, 2011.  Michelle’s story is that of four generations of an American family living under the same roof.  Michelle, an exotic dancer, making daily trips to a local methadone clinic, has a sugar daddy. She also has two young daughters who are being raised by her ailing, overburdened elderly grandparents. This is a show about a family who wrote to Intervention for help after years of hearing Michelle’s excuses, and witnessing the domino effects of her addiction on her increasingly-defiant daughters.  Can’t wait to see the show.  I was told to have Kleenex on hand.   Michelle’s aunt and uncle are bringing her daughters to California next week to attend Betty Ford Center's Children's Program.  Michelle will also attend these four days of workshops and seminars, designed to help 7 to 12-year-old children from families who have been hurt by the disease of addiction. 

Here are updates on our other two Intervention clients, both by chance also from New Jersey.

Angelina:  Thumbnail image for HPIM0218.jpgCandy Finnigan brought Angelina to Malibu Beach Recovery Center in September 2008.  She was a heroin addict, so hardcore that she forced her mother to strip in front of Intervention cameras to prove she was not hiding Angelina’s drugs. Angelina had already overdosed so many times there was a “Do Not Resuscitate” order at the local New Jersey Hospital.  While in sober living she got a job waiting tables in a local Italian restaurant.  Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for angelina moore.jpgShe still has the job, but only goes in on weekends; weekdays she runs the medical practice of one of our very first alumni, who she is set to marry in November.  She is an AA stalwart, with several sponsees.  She has repaired relations with her family.

 

 

Rachel: Candy brought Rachel in May 2010. Thumbnail image for rachel_color.jpgShe was homeless, sleeping on the steps of a Fifth Avenue Manhattan church, panhandling to earn a living.  She had blue and orange hair and a tough “street” attitude toward life – but when she saw the bed she was going to be sleeping in for the next 90 days, she began jumping up and down with joy.  Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for RACHEL_screengrabs51.jpgShe is an amazing artist.  Rachel’s story was reality TV at its best, filled with fireworks and drama.  She has had a lot to overcome, including a bench warrant that appeared out of nowhere, and almost got her extradited back to New Jersey and prison.  With the help of an MBRC counselor, Rachel has put together a resume, and seems ready to enter the workforce for the first time.  

 

Two days ago I drove to a 12 Step Women’s Meeting here in Malibu to meet the three girls.  While my photographs of Angelina, Rachel, and Michelle reveal how fabulous they now look, especially compared to when they first arrived, the big news is how much each has changed thanks to the amazing opportunity this reality TV show has given them.  We are very proud to have had a role in those transformations.Angelina, Rachel, Michelle August 2011.jpg

 

 

 

 

Meet Candy Finnigan, Interventionist

It’s hard to know how to start when introducing Candy because she's so accomplished.  Say that she’s part of the cast of the Emmy-winning A&E show “Intervention,” televised Mondays since 2005? Or that she’s written a self-help book, When Enough is Enough: A Comprehensive Guide to Successful Intervention? That she’s in recovery herself, celebrating 25 years of sobriety?cfinnigan_head-shots- new.jpg 


Joan introduced Candy to me by saying she’s privately helped many people get into treatment, including singers, actors, and politicians, but she has also educated millions about addiction and recovery through her regular appearances on “Intervention,”  inspiring them to seek treatment for themselves or their loved ones.

 

Her credentials are listed on Amazon:  “She received her certification in chemical dependency from UCLA and completed her internship at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center. She trained with the man who developed the intervention process, Vernon Johnson, and she has been affiliated as an interventionist with the Betty Ford Center, The Meadows, Hazelden, and many other treatment centers.”

 

Malibu Beach Recovery Center is not listed there, but Candy told me, when I interviewed her, that the Malibu Beach Recovery Center holds a special place in her heart because it treats the whole person. “[The Malibu Beach Recovery System] reprograms the brain not to have the drug be your reward,” she said. 


Candy has sent two clients from the TV show “Intervention” to Malibu Beach Recovery Center, both by chance from New Jersey.  

The most recent is Rachel whose segment will launch Intervention’s 10th season on December 13, 2010Thumbnail image for RACHEL_screengrabs51.jpg.  When Candy intervened on her she was homeless, sleeping on the steps of a Fifth Avenue Manhattan church.  Neither Joan nor Candy would give away the ending but both describe Rachel’s story as reality TV at its best, filled with fireworks and drama.

 

The first was Angelina, who arrived in September 2009 and never looked back. angelina for blog.jpgFollowers of “Intervention”’s Facebook page recently voted Angelia’s episode one of their three favorite shows of all time.   Both A&E and Malibu Beach Recovery Center have done video follow ups on Angelina’s remarkable

transformation from a down-and-out New Jersey heroin addict to a vibrant young woman who now lives in West Los Angeles, holds down a steady job, has reconnected with her family, is involved in a committed long term relationship, and participates fully in the 12 step community.

 

Here’s more of my interview with Candy:

Pat: How did you get your start?

 

Candy: I actually started helping people in 12-step programs and then I went for training. Vernon Johnson, a minister who introduced interventions in the 1960’s, had a big influence on me. He also wrote I’ll Quit Tomorrow. Johnson got the idea for intervention at funerals. People would get up and talk about the deceased, and he wondered why they didn’t do that when the person was alive.

 

Pat: Briefly—I know you wrote a whole book about intervention—but how can you make someone go to treatment who doesn’t want to go?

 

Candy: The primary symptom is denial. Addicts think everyone around them is making things up. But when the family gets together and talks to their loved one, each one holds a mirror up to his or her actions. They talk about how they see addiction affecting the addict, and what it has meant to them. If the addict chooses not to go, you can talk about consequences, but you can’t really give someone consequences when it’s a disease, any more than you would give a heart disease patient consequences. As I say in my book, intervention is successful about 80% of the time.

 

Pat: Please tell us what made you join the cast of “Intervention.”

 

Candy: (Laughs.) I actually signed on because I didn’t think it would fly. But Sam Mettler, the series creator, knew exactly what he wanted to do. I’ve asked people why they let the film crew film the experience, and they say “Because I never want anyone else to have to go through this.” The families have such generosity.

 

Pat:. How’s the program going?

 

Candy: We’re approaching our 175th show and over 90,000 people have applied to appear on it.   It’s more important than ever to get people into treatment. More people die today from accidental prescription pill overdose than from gunshot wounds.

 

NOTE from Joan Borsten:  The Intervention TV website is an excellent resource for locating treatment centers, sober living houses, and finding information about the disease of addiction.